Our Mexican Camino: Ending MS and Finding New Life: May 23, 2017

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

May 23, 2017

When I walked the Camino a couple of years ago, I wrote lessons learned in my blog each day. One lesson I learned again and again, was to do hard things. When you do hard things and you accomplish them it is such a wonderful sense of achievement. It also leads you to places you that bless you and teach you.

Yesterday, when Doug walked the full length of the our property, he did a very hard thing and he accomplished it. When he is standing and transferring it is scary for him. He is afraid of falling. He is still fairly weak. But, I think that yesterday, having accomplished that walk, he feels more confident. Tonight when he was transferring and had to walk a few steps, turn around and sit down, he moved the walker on his own and did not need any real help from me. To think, it was just a couple weeks ago we were using the disk to turn him on to transfer him, and only a couple of weeks before that we were really struggling with the slider board.

I had a meeting that I had to go to tonight. Doug was able to stay home alone. We have both become much more confident about him staying alone for a while. The full time I was gone, I was able to be completly present in the meeting, not concerned for him. Now I am looking forward to tomorrow. Kerry, his PT will be back tomorrow. I look forward to hearing about what they will accomplish.

Here is quote I found tonight, while reading before bedtime. It spoke to me and I wanted to share it.

"Every blade of grass has its angel that bends over it and whispers, "Grow, grow." - The Talmud

God of Transformation that calls us to grow, we thank you for the opportunities that come to us each day that beckon us to grow. Help us to lean in and see the possibilities. Help us to trust in your goodness and in ourselves. Help us to see what is possible and then to step out and try. In your name we ask it. Amen

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Sherry K-BarrettMay 23, 2017 at 10:50 PM
Thank you for sharing your strength of faith and action through joy of trying & achieving . We continue through prayer, faith, joy, hope and love. Sherry
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About Doug

Fr. Doug Yarbrough was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in 2008. Although judging from his MRI scans he probably had it for many years prior to his diagnosis. Since the diagnosis he has experienced continuous progression of the disease resulting in more and more disability.

Today he is dependent on an electric wheelchair to get around outside of his home. At home he uses a walker to walk short distances. His eyes loose focus easily and he cannot read. This is difficult for someone who has always been a voracious reader and life long learner. He experiences extreme fatigue. Most days it is all he can do to just take care of his own personal needs. We are grateful he can do that and fear the day that he will loose these skills. But with the progression of this disease that day may not be far off.

This is not the person Fr. Doug has always been. Many will remember him as an active member of his family, church, community and state. He is an ordained priest in the Episcopal Church. As a priest and community leader he has been a passionate crusader working on behalf of the poor, the abused, the homeless and minorities. He has been a husband, a father and a grandfather. He has always been the person who helps others.

Fr. Doug is a learner and believes in education to serve the common good. He has a B.A. in Education and Philosophy, a Master's in Counseling and a Master's in Religion. He has a doctorate in Educational Psychology. His education nurtured his thirst for learning, to make God known to the world and to serve others in the example of Christ. His favorite Bible passage is from Micah 6:8. In the New English Language Version of the Bible it reads "He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?" These words have framed his work in the church and the world.

In 2005 he was awarded the Canyon County Humanitarian Award for his contributions, care and concern for the most needy and marginalized people in Canyon County. He chaired the Nampa Shelter Coalition board and was on this board for many years. He also served for many years on the Nampa Family Justice Center and the Idaho State Domestic Violence Boards. He founded the Open Arms Baby Boutique in Nampa. This is a resource center for low-income women. The women earn points for prenatal and postnatal check-ups. They may then trade the points in for diapers, baby clothes, furniture, etc. He was on the "Success by Six" Treasure Valley committee. Fr. Doug served on the Mercy Hospital Ethics Board. All this he did while pastoring a church and serving on many church boards and committees.

After many years of service, Fr. Doug is now in need of your help. He is in the fight of his life to stop the progression of this horribly debilitating disease. Up until now, there has been little hope, but upon returning from a pilgrimage of prayer for healing we learned of a new stem cell treatment that some are calling a cure. This treatment is HSCT (Hematopoietic Stem Cell Transplant). Using this treatment the patient's own stem cells are harvested, then the patient's immune system is killed using chemotherapy and then the patient's own stem cells are transplanted back into their body. It works similarly to a reboot of a computer. The immune system is being rebooted. This treatment is in Clinical Trials in the United States, but in other places in the world it is being used as a treatment for MS. Worldwide data shows that more than 80% of MS patients receiving this treatment see an end to the progression of the disease and many see a reversal in disability. The brain is able to heal from the bodies own attacks on the myelin insulating sheath around that surrounds nerve fibers

Unfortunately HSCT treatment is expensive and not yet covered by insurance. To get this treatment he will have to travel outside of the country. To help pay for this treatment family and friends of Father Doug are raising money to help pay for uninsured medical expenses associated with HSCT (HEMATOPOIETIC STEM CELL TRANSPLANT) to halt the progression of his Multiple Sclerosis. We don’t have time to wait for Clinical Trials in the US. Fr. Doug is rapidly progressing in disability from this disease. We have to act now if we are to save and hopefully improve the quality of Fr. Doug’s life. We have a goal of October 15, 2016 to raise all the money needed. This is the earliest possible date that the treatment may be available.

Fr. Doug has chosen to fund-raise with HelpHOPELive in part because HelpHOPELive assures fiscal accountability of funds raised and tax deductibility for donors. Donors can be sure that funds donated will be used only to pay for unreimbursed medically related expenses. To make a tax-deductible donation to this fundraising campaign, click on the Donate Now button.

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Thank you and God Bless you for your help!

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